Listening is one of the most deceptively simple, seemingly passive acts.
But so often, particularly for us perfectionists and people pleasers, we are listening in order to respond rather than listening to listen.
We’re listening to...
Defend
Deflect
Distract
Blame
Shame
Judge
Fix
And when we listen with a purpose other than listening, we interfere with our ability to be fully present.
We cut ourselves off from true connection and communion.
Today, we’re making space for all that’s possible when we practice the art of listening.
HERE'S A SNEAK PEEK OF THE GOODNESS…
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN ABOUT IN THIS EPISODE…
The difference between listening to listen versus listening to respond
What gets in the way of listening, particularly for us perfectionists and people pleasers
How to engage listening when we feel voiceless
Listening as an act of permission, courage, vulnerability, and leadership
Why listening to respond blocks true connection
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And because we’re in this together, be sure to take the Eff Perfect Pledge.